Firstly..to Bluben..Happy Birthday    !!. i have to say I was ASTONISHED to read your reply. When I saw your name on the post this eve..I feared the worst!!...but I would like to thank you for all your comments today.We have had our (minor) run in's, in the past, but where some people may have misconstrued these as snide, sly etc, I hope you accept that these were always meant to be smart and humourous..and nothing else.

... In saying that i know i may have went over the top sometimes with my comments, and I apologise now for that. It took a lot of guts to post your comments today, and back me up, seeing as I have not been too "polite" to you in the past. I know you chat a lot on these sites with Crystal, CBF etc, and I have the utmost respect in the way you carried yourself on this one.

..You will be glad to know that myself and crystal have in fact, drawn a line in the sand!, and I hope not to cross that line with her again (that girl can get MADDDDDDD !!)

crazydude501 ..thank you for your apology. i dont think we spoke to each other before yesterday (i could be wrong)...again I admire you for apologising, and if i caused you any offence, i apologise also.

...Cant wait for S5, so that we can all get back to the one thing we have in common...LOST, and how brilliant it is!

in reagards S3 Finale (i probably sholdnt bring it back up!)...at what stage in the flash/forwards - future do ye guys think it is set?

In that episode, do you think that it was also Locke in that (differnt) funeral parlour Jack visited?

..and does this expalin why Kate refused to go to funeral?

Cheers Guys !   

Hi H. Good point re the parlour..i didnt think of that. I dont thing Jack had been flying (to crash) when he was living with Kate..a few episodes back in S4. Unless he can grow a beard seriously fast  , so you may be right re the timing. I thought the acting by both Kack and Kate in the S3 finale was out of this world..especially in Jacks case. It was like watching a scene from an oscar winning movie. I never tend to watch films or tv shows more than once...maybe twice. But i could watch that scene over and over and never get bored. I think there at a lot of clues in this finale scene, and I think it will feature again next season, but everytime I sit down to watch and listen for clue's in this scene..I just get blown away by it. 

Alan.

lol alan. (minor) differences.

i think the FF in the season 3 finale is after jack leaves kate (definitely) and im sure its after kates dream. just like the others said

The 'we have to go back' scene was one of my favourite scenes from the whole 4 seasons.  I agee Alan, the quality of acting was really cranked up in that one.  I never really saw Matthew Fox as a fantastic actor but he does an incredible job. It raises the bar for the writers and hopefully they give us more of the same in S5.

...even the rumble of the plane taking off in the background gives me the goosebumps